Sometimes when I read a blog, I have to ask myself, “What happened that caused them to write that? There’s something between the lines, but I just can’t see it with my old foggy eyes.” I wonder if anyone asked that question yesterday with my short little story about Little Wife’s basket…
I had every intention of telling a funny story about Little Wife in one of her hilarious adventures. Halfway through my thought process, the mailman delivered his daily stuff. The first envelope I opened was the bad news that the high school would not waive its fees because our income did not fall within their restricted guidelines.
Next I opened the envelope from Compassion Int’l which is usually a wonderful letter from the young lady I’ve sponsored for more than eleven years — her name is Annet, and she lives in Uganda. You may remember that one of the great gifts Mark gave me for our anniversary was a savings account so that I could plan to visit her in the fall of 2012, and I’ve been very excited about that journey.
I immediately realized that the letter inside was not from Annet — not her handwriting. It was actually from the child development director at the Nangalama Child Development Center in Jinja where Annet has been connected to the services of Compassion. Her letter was brief — thanks for being Annet’s sponsor, unfortunately she is unavailable to respond in writing to my letters. Here is a direct quote from the heart-breaking letter:
“Annet finished [her studies] as a nursing aide and went to look for employment. In the due course, she became pregnant and gave birth to a baby. She preferred to stay away from home, and her parents do not know where she is living now. Efforts are however in place to find Annet and as soon as we find her, we shall request her to write to you.”
I have no more details than that. Just a sadness and a mother’s heart of worry for this woman who I’ve known since she was eight years old, the same age that AnnaRose is right now. So that’s why I just started putting all my stuff in the basket yesterday — too much stuff was cluttering up my heart, and the tears in my eyes blurring the screen so that I couldn’t tell you more about Little Wife.
Please pray with me that my dear daughter in Uganda is safe, and that she is not all alone in the city. Pray that God will guide her and lead her and comfort her and strengthen her and give her His peace. And may His sweetest blessings fall on you today.
Aug 05, 2011 @ 21:49:57
Aw…..sending you a hug. I can’t imagine how this must be weighing on your heart. Hoping that you get good news soon about this special young lady. I admire you for sponsoring her.
Aug 06, 2011 @ 11:25:47
Thanks for caring, Dianna. It’s a testimony to the power of love when a person on the other side of the planet can hold our hearts in such an embrace. The truth is that I’ve never met her face-to-face, yet Annet has been very dear to me for so long — her letters and the pictures I have of her growing up are precious. Always I have prayed for her to have hope in her circumstances — that will continue to be my prayer for her.
Aug 24, 2011 @ 00:08:18
Both of you mothers and her baby have my prayers.
Aug 24, 2011 @ 11:11:34
Patty, thank you so much. Prayers are the best way to love people, whether they are close by or long distance.